THINK AGAIN

"When you give up vengeance, make sure you are not giving up on justice. The line between the two is faint, unsteady, and fine...Vengeance is our own pleasure of seeing someone who hurt us getting it back and then some. Justice, on the other hand, is secure when someone pays a fair penalty for wronging another even if the injured person takes no pleasure in the transaction. Vengeance is personal satisfaction. Justice is moral accounting...Human forgiveness does not do away with human justice."
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Is it hard to ask for forgiveness?? I know that I did the same mistakes over and over again...what should I do for there is no alarm signaling me that I am forgetting to text her or call her...It seem that certain things I may tend to forget not absolutely but for I also have my own time to spend with others...It does not mean that I forget the people that matters most but need to allocate some time for other especially friends...this is what connections means especially after some years of not meeting each other...I don' see myself as a person that is very forgiving...but I tend to let things go easily when someone made a mistake to me....when they apologize I let them go and nowadays I don't even care bringing the matter up when in a quarrel...I know what I want from others but if they can't give what we hoped them to even after many times of hoping we build up the tolerance that binds us together...in good or bad situations not only faced by the pair but also each other that we want as much want to help who we love or at least make ourselves available for them with a condition that they share their problems...Another item in comes up...sharing...haih...I am actually tired of typing here...so the bottom line is forgiving for a person unites many things...from there we understand others either we are the one doing the mistake or being hurt from it...humans are imperfect that made us forgive and tolerate espeially our loved ones because they matter...and for everything we do we want to share our life with them especially the good times but we must also share the bad one so that they understand and do not feel thay are being left out in their lives.